It’s been a while…. a long while I guess, since I’ve done any sort of a real family update.
Life has been busy. We’re in the process of finishing up the last two weeks of school and because the weather is finally nice, every weekend seems to be full with some type of extended family activity. I’m appreciative of it all, but sadly it doesn’t leave as much time for blogging :)
Audrey is 14 months now. I just had her monthly weight check on Monday of this week and she is now 16 pounds 13 ounces. She put on 1 pound 3 ounces in a short month!! This is great news.
She is continuing to stand more (along furniture) but doesn’t seem to want to even try to take a step on her own. The longest she has stood on her own is probably 5 seconds.
She is a great waver and has started clapping her hands. She also recently started speaking gibberish (googey, googey, googey – is what it sounds like). However, she no longer says da da and though she had only said “Ma” a couple of times she no longer says that either. Those were her only two “real” words, so she isn’t really talking at all yet, which is fine, though I am slightly concerned about her losing words. Audrey now has three teeth. One really big one on the top, two "(normal size ones) on the bottom - her smile is so awesome! It makes me smile no matter what, I mean how could you not? This gangly tooth hanging down…. someone said she looked like a red neck who had lost all her other teeth…. and she does!! :) We recently moved Audrey and Alexa into the same room, at the request of Treyton. It has been a little rocky the first couple of days for Audrey. She likes to just stand up in her crib and talk at Alexa, Alexa is good and stays quiet and in bed for about 2 minutes and then she starts talking back and ends up getting out of bed. The first night it took us over 45 minutes and SEVERAL trips into the room to get them finally asleep. Last night it took about 15 minutes and only 1 trip in. Hopefully it only gets better. Audrey and Lexie have an AWESOME relationship. Alexa is very nurturing and sweet to Audrey. Whenever Audrey wakes up from one of her naps or in the morning Alexa goes “Gooood moorrrnning Baby Audrey!!! How you doing?” It’s the cutest thing ever. Alexa talks to Audrey like she is a “real” person unlike most of the rest of us. Alexa will show Audrey things – like which pair of pants she’s thinking about wearing or, which barrette she chose to put in her hair that day, or her favorite book/toy and she’ll say “You like that Baby Audrey?"
Alexa goes out of her way to include baby Audrey in what she is doing (when she wants to, not all the time) and is very gentle when she handles her. It’s really no wonder that Audrey responds to Alexa with so much enthusiasm. I love the relationship that the two girls have, it’s awesome to see how close they are at even such young ages. Alexa is allowed to get away with MUCH MORE (by Audrey) than Treyton. Audrey is very temperamental towards Treyton, which I don’t really get, Treyton seems to me to be just as nurturing and loving.
Alexa is growing so fast. She is HI-larious, and she is super smart. I LOVE our conversations with one another, probably because we are like minded and both female.
Alexa is a quick thinker, opinionated, reasons well (whether it’s right or not), and she is articulate so she’s able to verbalize all these things, which makes for fun conversations between her and mommy.
Daddy and Treyton are more people-pleasing, so when it comes down to it they are both usually less concerned about what they want, than making any waves in the home. Alexa on the other hand is more particular about certain things and likes to be involved in making decisions, and will question and stand up against things she doesn’t like or understand. (Much like myself) It isn’t always a bad thing or even a cause of conflict in the home, it can come up during something as simple as learning something new or going some place. It’s jus a more verbal and opinionated approach to life.
Treyton, however, takes more after Tim. If we’re talking about something, he usually needs time to process it – anytime there is a conversation that starts with “What do you think about…..?” You can bet that neither Tim or Treyton will have an immediate answer for me. Give ‘em 5-10 minutes and they will; they just like time to think through their options, deliberate and analyze. Lexie and I however are much more opinionated and zealous. You will probably barely get the question out of your mouth and we will both have our opinions on the matter.
Alexa is a fun-free spirit. It’s fun to watch her as she develops and watch her find her place in the world.
Alexa is also really nurturing and caring, which I’ll be honest, surprised me at first. If someone is crying or hurt, it is Alexa who runs to them and tries to make them feel better. One day, not too long ago, Treyton was crying and Lexie came over to him and said “Don’t cry Treyton, Jesus loves you, don’t cry, why would you cry? Jesus loves you.”
The following day Audrey was crying and Lexie came over and made similar sentiments “Don’t cry Audrey, your my favorite sister, you don’t need to cry about that, you’re my favorite sister.”
An ambulance came and stopped near our house yesterday and Lexie could NOT get over the fact that someone might be hurt or need help. She said “Oh no, someone is hurt!! What do we do? What happens?” She kept running to the window asking how or why they were hurt and what we needed to do.
Treyton is doing well. He just started his second little league season. Our area has two seasons a year, he joined in the fall last year, and now is in the spring league.
He LOVES baseball. He practices ALL the time and is floating on cloud nine whenever Dad or I offer to go out and practice with him.
Through a little bit of miscommunication (on Dad and Mom’s part), Treyton has been working toward a high-pay-off goal: he will get paid $50 if he hits a baseball from where he practices to our mound in the backyard by the end of the summer(I have no idea how far it is - but it’s the width of our backyard for those of you that’s been there.) He has already gotten within 10 feet of it or so. He’s a really good hitter. During his first game he hit a fly ball all the way to the next field over.
Treyton finished up his AWANA year at the beginning of May. They had a ceremony for all the kids where he was recognized for his achievements. It was so cute. He loves to talk about going on stage, but then when he gets up there he always acts a little shy. Lexie was sitting in the audience with Tim and I and when she saw Treyton go up on stage, she stood up on my lap and said “Treyton!! Treyton, can you see me? Can you see Lexie?!”
Then while the kids were singing the AWANA songs up on stage Lexie went out to the center aisle and started dancing almost up to the front row!!
While Treyton is a little more conservative, reserved and cautious Lexie just let’s it all go, she has no fear of people or groups. Some days I’m surprised that these two children have the same parents --- this was one of those days ;)
Treyton is just about finished with Kindergarten, though he will actually be finishing up the first grade curriculum – and in the fall he will be moving on to the second grade curriculum, though we will call him first grade. Treyton tries really hard in school and does a great job, but he is best at learning through life experiences. He learns so much on his own, he is really creative in his play-time and implements much of what he learns during his play.
One example of this, is that the other day, I caught him building yet another project with wood (he’s a good builder). After he finished he said “What do you think it is mom?” I said “What did you build it to be?” and he said “I don’t know, maybe like for sacrifices like in the Bible?”
We had been talking about alters in one of our Bible stories, why alters were built, and how we don’t build them much anymore, but that we try to set up reminders in our home (life symbols if you will), for the same reasons as alters. He’s never seen a picture of an alter, but I think he did an amazing job at designing what he thought it would look like.
A few days later, he asked me to find something that was moving fast. I told him there were cars on the road in the front of the house. He went outside and a few minutes later he came in with a picture on his digital camera of a car passing by. We recently studied Frans Lanting in school (a famous photographer) and looked at several pictures with fast motion in the pictures (waterfalls, a cheetah running, etc). That showed blurry lines and movement in a beautiful way. He went outside and tried his best to recreate that for his own art. He really is an amazing student.
Like I mentioned before Treyton asked for his own room. A month or so ago I had tried to warn the kids that they weren’t always going to share with one another, that in another 6 months or so that Audrey and Lexie were going to probably share. Treyton seemed devastated. He said he wanted to share with Lexie that he didn’t want to be alone. Then last week Lexie woke him up several times in the night (again) because of her knees (she has really bad knee pain at night), he asked to sleep in the guest room. The next night he asked to sleep in the guest room again, we let him. When I asked him “Why?” He just said he was ready for his own room…. thus began the big change.
I think that he already misses her some, but he also seems to enjoy a little of his own space. Treyton is the kind of kid that needs downtime (like his mama). After a busy weekend, going to the Brewer game, then having friends over and rearranging all the bedrooms on Sunday he tells me “I want tomorrow to be a nice and easy day, okay mom, no friends, nothing else, but maybe school.” On Monday we ended up running several errands and he told me “This was not the easy day I was looking for today, mom.” :)
In other news, (probably minor to most, but not to us) Treyton thinks he has a new favorite color, I say “think” because as his mother, teacher and person who knows him better than he knows himself most days, I don’t think he’s really changed his favorite color as much as he wants to change his favorite color. Up til now, his favorite color has been orange, he says his new favorite color is red. He likes red (he says) because it’s like orange, and because a lot of things are red. However, when given the choice between something orange or something red, his “instinct” is still to choose orange until he is reminded that his “new favorite” color is red. :) We shall see, which color makes it out on top, and just how determined Treyton is in changing his favorite color :) LOL!
Tim’s Finger Update
Tim’s finger is almost completely healed from the surgery, in that he’s no longer wearing a brace and the wounds have healed. The nerve has not repaired yet, but the doctor told him that once the nerve did start to grow back that it would only grow an inch a month (if we were lucky) so that it would probably take a while.
We found out (after the surgery) that there is the chance that the nerve may not grow back even with the repair. Even though he hasn’t noticed any feeling on the outside of the pinky yet, doesn’t mean there won’t be any. It does take time.
His pinky is still crooked at the last knuckle (same as it was since the last accident). Dr. B talked about repairing it eventually but I don’t think it’s something Tim will ever have done. So at this point, we are back to where we started for before the accident, with slightly less feeling.
I’m doing okay.
I’m in the midst of trying to finish our school year strong and plan my sister and I’s upcoming New York City Trip (2 weeks, 2 days and counting!!)
We also just finished putting in our Square Foot Gardens (6 of them). Tim built them (what a man, right?) and I have more than half of them planted, with mostly larger plants to put in (zucchini, cucumber, etc.) I am REALLY excited about our upcoming garden season. Not much else to update really, except, oh yeah, I got a new hair cut that I really enjoy. Trying the swooping bangs and layered look. I’ve received a lot of compliments – people keep telling me I look like I’ve lost weight, so that’s a bonus ;)
Hope all is going well with your families.